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This is NOT DiY – #2 Does it look like the Neighborhood

June 8, 2026 by brentlacydotcom

Does Your Church Look Like Your Neighborhood?

1 Peter 2:4-10 — “As you come to him, a living stone rejected by men but in sight of God chosen and precious, you yourselves like living stones are being built up as a spiritual house.”

Peter’s metaphor is beautiful. The church is a spiritual house, built from living stones. But here is a question that should haunt every rural church: Does your church look like your neighborhood?

The Problem of the Bubble

Many rural churches are bubbles. They are made up of people who have been there for generations. The same families. The same last names. The same social class.

Jesus did not come for one kind of person. He came for everyone. And if our churches do not reflect that diversity, we are not fulfilling the mission.

What It Means to Look Like Your Neighborhood

It means being present in the community. It means building relationships with people who are different from you. It means creating a church where everyone feels welcome.

Know your community. Be present. Welcome the stranger. And cross social boundaries.

The Hard Work of Inclusion

Making your church look like your neighborhood is hard work. It requires intentionality. It requires humility. It requires a willingness to change.

But it is worth it. Because the church is not meant to be a museum for the faithful. It is meant to be a hospital for the broken.


Frequently Asked Questions

How do we reach people who are different from us?

Start with relationships. Get to know people. Learn their stories. And create a church where everyone feels welcome.

What if our church is not diverse?

Diversity is not the goal. Faithfulness is the goal. But faithfulness means reaching beyond your comfort zone.

How do we welcome new people?

Be genuine. Learn their names. Include them in conversations. And do not expect them to become like you.

What if our congregation resists change?

Be patient. Cast vision. And remember: the church belongs to God.

Where can we find resources for church outreach?

MinistryPlace.net offers free evangelism training and outreach toolkits for rural churches.


Brent Lacy has spent over 25 years in small-town and rural ministry. He has seen the power of churches that look like their communities.

Rural ministry is different. Your resources should be too.

MinistryPlace.net exists to serve small and rural church leaders with free and low-cost resources — curriculum, toolkits, and practical guides that help you build God’s kingdom in your community without the big-church budget.

Discover MinistryPlace.net →

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